Today I want to look at another woman who served as a prophetess. She, however, was not documented in the Bible as being a wife. Yet she was submissive most of the time.
One month in a church planning meeting a request was made for a conference on prayer. A middle-aged woman who was well-established in the congregation mentioned that they had a seasoned prayer warrior in their midst that would be wonderful to lead such a conference. Conversation continued and the idea was tabled for further research.
Throughout the next month many people spoke with Janet about her prayer ministry. She spent hours in prayer herself asking God to clearly direct her path. When it came time for the next planning meeting Janet was confident God was prompting her to lead the conference. Although she had never really taught before, she certainly had the experience necessary to lead this conference and she was willing to do it at no cost.
Barely minutes into the meeting a motion was made to bring in well-known, high-priced speaker on prayer. The motion passed with everyone’s vote except for a shocked Janet.
That night after the meeting the pastor cheerfully approached Janet. “I have had a request to see if you would be willing to teach a class on Wednesday nights for our newly-wed wives on prayer. Doesn’t that sound like a great opportunity? You will be a GREAT inspiration and encouragement to women at this stage of their marriages!”
Miriam, sister of Moses and Aaron, prophetess, and worship leader. Not only that, but she played a drum and danced!
In many conservative circles, Miriam is radical and a rebel!
Where did Miriam get her start in ministry?
Remember Pharaoh degreed that all male children born to Hebrew women should be killed. Miriam’s mother had a son and hid him for three months. When she could hide him no longer she put him in an ark and set it in the reeds in the river. Miriam stood watch over her brother. Pharaoh’s daughter came to bathe in the river and found baby Moses. Even though she knew he was a Hebrew baby she had compassion on him. (Paraphrase Exodus 2:3-6)
Then his sister said to Pharaoh’s daughter, “Shall I go and call a nurse for you from the Hebrew women, that she may nurse the child for you?” And Pharaoh’s daughter said to her, “Go.” So the maiden went and called the child’s mother. Exodus 2:7-8
Miriam submitted to her parents, to God, and to government officials. Her faithfulness resulted in her own mother getting paid to nurse and raise her own son until he was big enough to be raised by the Pharaoh’s daughter.
We don’t know anything about Miriam’s ministry from the time she protected her brother’s life to this celebration after the crossing of the Red Sea.
Moses was God’s chosen mouthpiece and Aaron and his sons had been promised to be set apart as priests (Exodus 28 and 29). Miriam had no such promise or future specified.
I have spent much of this series focusing on how women, especially submissive women, are not doormats, nor should they be silent victims. I stand beside all I have proclaim thus far.
Today I want to issue a warning, however. Those of us women who have been called into radical submission, into radical ministry, bear a load of responsibility.
We need to remember that we are called to submit to authority. I’m reminded of the saying, “Just because you CAN doesn’t mean you SHOULD.”
Miriam and Aaron spoke out against Moses’ wife to start with, but finally we find out they really don’t have a problem with who he’s married.
Have you ever watched someone above you who’s doing the exact same thing as you and wondered why they’re above you? It could be at work, in the church, or in a ministry. We’re doing the exact same work. Why is the labor of their hands being blessed and mine isn’t?
I’m inferring quite a bit here, but I can imagine this might be along the lines of what Miriam was thinking. God heard her and called her on it.
Um, I think Miriam just got an answer. God might have spoken through her and Aaron, but He had spoken directly to Moses. Moses was His chosen one. She and Aaron should not have been speaking out against Moses in any way shape or form.
When we allow our pride to take over we allow our submissive nature to slip away. All of the sudden it isn’t about feeling like I have a right to be or do the same thing my male counterparts are doing, but it’s about me calling God onto the carpet and snubbing His leadership in my life.
Miriam’s failure to submit brought discipline from the Lord. Her brother Aaron, the follower, was the one who noticed and pled forgiveness for her plight. Her brother Moses, the one they had spoke out against, the one they had sinned against, the one they both should have been in submission to all along, immediately cried out on her behalf and prayed for her healing.
God heard Moses’s prayer and forgave Miriam. However, she still had to accept the consequences of her rebellion. Not only that, but the entire camp had to sit for seven days and wait for her punishment to end.
When we choose not to submit to those God has placed in authority over us, whether they be husbands, relatives, or Godly leaders, we put not only ourselves in danger, but the entire body in danger.
Remember Janet’s story from the beginning of my post? Janet felt like God was calling her to lead the prayer conference at her church. She was the only prayer warrior within the congregation. The church didn’t vote for her to lead the conference though. Instead, they offered to let her teach newly married women how to pray.
What a consolation, right?
Janet has a couple choices. Ok, she has a LOT of choices in my mind!
A) leave the church. Yep. Just quit. How dare they overlook her gift that way.
B) confront the issue. Call it onto the carpet. Why are they paying some high-priced person to come lead a conference that she is clearly qualified to lead and willing to do for free?
C) Refuse to teach the newly married women’s prayer class. Are you kidding? If I’m not good enough for the whole church, then I’m not good enough for the new wives.
D) teach the newly married women’s prayer class with a bitter spirit and not give it her all.
E) pray without ceasing over the newly married women’s prayer class while pouring everything she knows into those women. She is helping to shape the future prayer warriors of the congregation, you know.
F) attend the church-wide prayer conference and contradict everything the speaker says. Make sure everyone’s aware of just how upset she is by this decision.
G) attend the church-wide prayer conference, pray without ceasing for the speaker, take copious notes, and stay late each night to pray with members who would like someone to pray with them.
Seven choices. Seven. And I didn’t think too hard to come up with that many. How many more options are popping in to your head?
Are any of these choices submissive? Some of these choices have the power to put Janet in danger, but some of them could seriously harm many other people.
What if Janet said no to teaching those newly married wives or stopped praying for others all together? What kind of impact might that have?
Sometimes our pride causes us to decide not to submit. You’re no better than me! I don’t have to listen to you! And we proceed to do something we later regret just because we didn’t want to look weak by submitting.
I don’t know about you, but I happen to believe that strength is found when we get on our knees. And that, my friends, is submission.